{"id":118083,"date":"2026-01-17T19:53:12","date_gmt":"2026-01-17T19:53:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pressactu.com\/?p=118083"},"modified":"2026-01-17T19:53:12","modified_gmt":"2026-01-17T19:53:12","slug":"comment-saimer-si-demain-nexiste-pas-une-ecrivaine-franco-ukrainienne-se-penche-sur-lamour-en-temps-de-guerre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pressactu.com\/?p=118083","title":{"rendered":"Comment s\u2019aimer si demain n\u2019existe pas\u00a0? 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